Wednesday, July 29, 2020

Book Review: Influence

Influence
by Sara Shepard; Lilia Buckingham
Pub Date: 05 Jan 2021 
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Glad I stuck with it! Went from an almost DNF to 3 stars to 4 ⭐⭐⭐⭐. Might have been my disinterest, disdain, or dread of the effect social media has on this generation of teens that initially had me turned off, but as the plot developed, there was a real story behind all of the 'influencing' going on. [Get your cringe ready for an "in my day" story... when I was a teen, we were only worried if our business got out there if the teacher intercepted a note we passed in class or a parent picked up the extension of the phone while we were on the line.] 

I read the beginning trying to deny or dismiss the reality that so many teens hope they'll be the next Internet sensation and monetize their notoriety. I didn't just want to be reading about the wannabes and cliques. By persisting, I was gifted with a well-crafted story that highlighted the not-so-glamorous side of teen Internet fame as well as the public perks. I'm sure Sara Shepard's fandom will be hooked on Influence as much as they are on Pretty Little Liars. Even readers unfamiliar with the Pretty Little Liars series (insert blush and finger-pointing here) will become engrossed as the author deftly crafted false leads as to whom the murderer could have been. I liked flip-flopping my choice of criminal as the story progressed. 

There's something for everyone in the book: physical and mental illnesses, friendships and back-stabbing, romances and break-ups, straight and gay, good home lives and dysfunctional families, and race-fluid characters. parties and murder. This will be a great addition to my HS library.

Wednesday, July 22, 2020

Book review: Aftershocks

Aftershocks 
by Marisa Reichardt 
Pub Date: 29 Sep 2020
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⭐⭐⭐⭐Very enjoyable. 

At first I wondered how the author was going to have a whole book told by someone caught in the rubble of an earthquake, but I was pleasantly surprised by the use of flashbacks and storytelling by the trapped characters. Then the narration changed as the story changed (I don't want to tell how, since that would be a spoiler. I'll just say that flashbacks were no longer needed.)

I loved everything about the book with the exception of the lead character's (Ruby) 'best friend' Mila. No one handled her situation well - not the adults (her school, her parents) nor her friends. True, sometimes it takes a literal Earth-shattering event to wise up, but it's a shame the character was allowed to get so far gone that only a natural disaster helped her. I'm reluctant to say it, but I felt that the Mila character was there just so Ruby could have something in common with Charlie. Though, I will admit, alcohol is a major problem with teenagers, so it's quite possible that any two teens would have a Mila or a Jason in common. And if it weren't for the alcohol, Ruby and Charlie never would have met.

The characters were real and developed. Though I'm someone who has never experienced a natural disaster, the author's clear and descriptive writing allowed me to sympathize with the characters' ordeals; I was able to ebb and flow with their hopes and despairs. The author was also realistic in developing the characters' experiences and growth. This was truly realistic fiction not watered down with magical thinking. I can't wait to put this into my high school library. 

Audio Book Review: Raybearer

Raybearer
by Jordan Ifueko
Pub Date: 18 Aug 2020 
listened to courtesy of http://netgalley.com

Full disclosure: DNF

More full disclosure: I'm not a fan of fantasy, but I was anxious to try out NetGalley's new audiobook offerings, and this was a YA title.

This was a DNF not only because I'm not a fantasy fan, but because I was trying to concentrate so hard to follow the story and backstory while driving that I missed my exit and had to drive out of my way to get to where I was going. If I had to concentrate that intensely, there was no enjoyment in it, just distraction from the story.

 Plus this was listed as sci-fi and fantasy, and from what I could tell, it was pure fantasy.

The narrator was lyrical enough for a fairytale-type story, though almost too much so. She had a breathy quality that implied anticipation, but not everything need to be anticipated.

Monday, July 20, 2020

Book Review: Schmegoogle

Schmegoogle: Yiddish Words for Modern Times
by Daniel Klein
Pub Date 01 Sep 2020   
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You had me at schmegoogle! Go ahead. Google your Cousin Hershel. Nothing comes up? He's a schmegoogle. Also, you'd better be a good tipper when your Uber driver is uber menschlich!  Do you think we could get all of our click bait to instead be called bubbe maiseh-trap? And they're just from chapter 1!

It's more like reading a joke book than a dictionary, but either way, it's funny! Included are both old, i.e., used elsewhere and included here, and new phrases. Besides word entries with definitions, examples, and word origins, Klein includes stand alone asides that are mini comic sets in themselves. (I loved "The Roth Conundrum" on page 45.)

One thing it's missing is the pronunciation cues. The goyim might not get the references to something they might actually have heard if they don't recognize the word. Even phonetic clues would be helpful.   

I hope you enjoy this review. I'd hate to think I'd done a good job only gifilted with schmortification. At least I'm not a phudnik. 

This book would make a fun gift for any alte kakers you know.

Book Review: Like Spilled Water

Book Review: Like Spilled Water 
by Jennie Liu 
Pub Date 01 Sep 2020
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This is a novel of regret, so it's a review filled with regrets.

I feel regret for the unlucky readers who found this book too long or too slow.  It's not an action novel; it's an emotional one. It's reflective of the societal norms to not reveal one's troubles encapsulated into a story. I am grateful to have been able to enter and understand a world different from my own.

I regret that that I read other's reviews before reading the book; they gave away even more than the author did with her clues as to Bao-bao's fate.  Jennie Liu hinted early that something was off about Na's brother's death, but she did so for literary movement, not to include a spoiler. I am grateful that the author skillfully cast doubt for the reader.

I regret Na's and Bao-bao's perceptions of their lost youth and their parents' perceptions of the purpose of children. I am grateful that the story ends with an ending that Na can live with.

I regret that Gilbert and Na's friendship encounters so many obstacles, but I am grateful that Na meets Min, who offers a different kind of friendship.

I regret watching Na and Bao-bao's unwavering parents live by ancient philosophies. I am grateful that I've been exposed to another culture's standards and been witness to how a culture changes between generations.

I regret not yet reading Liu's other book yet, "Girls on the Line." I am grateful that I now want to read more by this author, and I cannot wait to put this into the hands of my high school readers.

I regret that I cannot give "Like Spilled Water" 5⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ for literary prose, but I'm grateful that I can for an accessible, non-judgmental, multi-story line plot that makes me think outside of myself.

Sunday, July 19, 2020

Book Review: Lore

Although this was only a (surprise) excerpt - grrr - it served its purpose... I'm drawn in and want to know what's going to happen. Although I'm not normally drawn to fantasy, having the ancient Gods placed in New York helped ground me to the story (pun intended). The characters have depth and personalities. The plot moves at a pace that allows for understanding but also excitement and anticipation. I agree with other reviewers that fans of Hunger Games type stories will enjoy this, too.

Saturday, July 18, 2020

Book Review: Drink?

Drink?
by Professor David Nutt
Pub Date: 22 Dec 2020
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I realize this has turned into more of a critique than a book review. You may just want to read the first three and last three of the following paragraphs if you want the short version of my review.

Labeled as "self-help," this book is then presented a little backwards. The beginning is the "why" alcohol does what it does, and the second half is the "how" one can reduce or eliminate alcohol use. By the time I got through the "why," I was almost uninterested in the "how."  Granted, one might never read the "why" section if they get through the "how" section, since the self-help portion is the reason one would obtain the book in the first place. However, I was more impressed, and less confused, by the self-help section, so I'm glad I persevered.

Read the introduction; it contains some of the 'truths' about alcohol. "Marketing has altered our perception," "...its's absurd that coming of age should still be about alcohol," and "Would you take a new drug if you were told it would increase your risk of cancer, dementia, heart disease, or that it would shorten your life?"

Chapters 1-5 are the "why" - chemistry and biology - and chapters 6-10 are the "how" - psychology and sociology.

WHY: Chapters 1-5
There were a number of places in the book where I questioned whether Professor Nutt's statements were opinion or fact. These were the places I expected to see citations, like throughout the rest of the book, but where documentation for an assertion was lacking. For example, Professor Nutt's use of words like 'slight,' 'possible,' 'seems,' 'I think,' and 'some' caused me to search for citations to determine the research behind the associated statements, but the citations just as often weren't referenced. One example is "...the number of people living with it [alcoholic dementia] is expected to triple by 2050." THAT'S a statistic that requires a citation!

Irrelevant to which part of the book some of his suggestions appeared, a few concerned me. Although one section is subtitled, "Hangover Cures: What's the Evidence," implying he's presenting information and not recommendations, since this is a self-help book, I might assume that most readers aren't processing the "What's the Evidence" portion of the heading and merely focusing on the promise of "Hangover Cures."
For example, in number 2 he describes beta blockers and ends that paragraph with, "Whether they do more than that, I'm not sure." It's irresponsible to leave it at that; do beta blockers for a hangover do more good? More harm? Not enough 'evidence,' Professor Nutt.

Although one shouldn't expect 100% definitive guidelines, I'm bothered by some contradictions. At one point he says, ""...don't drink at all - because there are no health benefits" and "...no level of drinking is actually beneficial to health." However, one whole chapter (8) is about "The Social Benefits of Alcohol." Granted, health and social benefits are different, but he expounds in so many places how alcohol provides social benefits, which others can argue can positively affect health benefits. He concludes that "...But if you want the sociability benefits alcohol brings, it's a different story. In that case, you need to decide what risks you want to accept...." Teeter-totters go in both directions; he implies that the benefits of alcohol abstinence and social drinking have an inverse relationship, so one has to choose, to "balance out the pleasure you gain." Further into the book he says, "...that the amount of alcohol optimal to provide the protection ["partial protective effect on cardiovascular health - The Lancet"] appears to be very low - about one unit a day." So there are some health benefits; he just wants us to know "...that the benefit to the heart does not outweigh all the other risks of alcohol...." And remember the reference to alcoholic dementia above? Later in the book, he says, "...low levels of alcohol consumption - that is between one and ten drinks a week - reduced the risk of dementia. In fact, it appears that being teetotal may raise your risk of dementia...." He also includes "...a 2017 review [that] concluded that light to moderate drinking does reduce the risk of diabetes," and that report IS cited.

I also questioned some of his assertions like, "...there are wards full of these kids," while talking about "acute alcoholic hepatitis" in young binge drinkers. Then he goes on to say, "However bingeing is not the reason behind most cases of alcoholic hepatitis...." He also provided no citation regarding the number of kids or the number of wards. There were also some judgmental statements peppered throughout the book. In one instance, Nutt says that he doesn't think people seeing their doctors for hypertension are being asked about their alcohol use, "...perhaps because many doctors drink too much themselves?" If that's not just a judgment, then where's the citation?

The British perspective came through a few times. For instance, in the section, "Major Ways Alcohol Affects Your Length of Life," I had to look up Professor Nutt's reference to Damien Hirst's sharks and cows with regards to Nutt's mention of formaldehyde. However, I was pleased that Professor Nutt was inclusive and did include science references to Asia and Africa along with Europe, the UK, and the USA. 

I liked his discussion (and the reality check) of the arbitrariness of legal blood alcohol limits. He points out that for .079 and .081 "...is not that one is safe and the other dangerous, but that one if legal and the other is not." I also appreciated that he found a way to show how one's alcohol use affects others and not just one's self. He cites that the estimated prevalence of fetal alcohol spectrum disorders is 8 in 1,000 while the prevalence of Down's Syndrome is 1 in 1000. Perspective on preventable disorders is powerful. These type of discussions absolutely support his goal of an individual being "...able to work out how little you need in order to get the effects you do want."

HOW: Chapters 6-10
Early in the second half of the book, Professor Nutt relays some social the history of alcohol. One interesting part discussed how "...ancient Persians would only finally make a decision after the issue at hand had been discussed both sober and drunk," since being drunk brought out one's creativity. And though I knew alcohol was ancient, I didn't know that "It's only been in the last millennium that it has been banned by some religious groups, for example in Islam." [The irony isn't lost on this reader that modern "Persia" now Islamic.]

But sometimes he still spouts a factoid that he doesn't substantiate with a citation. I'd like to see the documentation of these assertions, Professor Nutt!
  • "...a view popular with conservative politicians, that addiction is fun and addicts enjoy getting drunk...." 
  • "...conflation of morality and science happens in addiction more than any other branch of medicine." 
  • "Drinking has become your hobby or the only way you socialize. This often happens with retirees or expats."
Professor Nutt does a much better job of citing some psychological aspects of why people drink, i.e., the self-help portion of the book. [Read the section on "Is Your Booze Buzz in Your Head?"] Later on he cites one study that "...showed that people drank lager 60 percent more slowly out of straight glasses than out of outward-curving (pilsner type) ones." Now that's interesting, don't you think? He also does a better job in this half of the book delineating when he is discussing fact or logic and not just opinion.

The best part of the book is headed, "How to Talk to Your Children about Booze." I can easily see this portion of the book being used with PTO/PTA groups. It was logical and could be easily implemented as a workshop program to support children and teens from succumbing to peer pressure, social norms, and advertising. While I did learn some things throughout the book, I'm not sure that much else is new or particularly persuasive that could convince an alcoholic to change their behavior; they'd just now be able to tell you why they are doing what they do.

And speaking of irony (which I did in the first ¶ of HOW: Chapters 6-10), his daughter runs a wine bar.



Monday, July 13, 2020

Book Review: How to Pack for the End of the World

How to Pack for the End of the World
by Michelle Falkoff
Pub Date: 10 Nov 2020
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Put five different competitive high schoolers together to see who can survive hypothetical apocalyptic disasters, and you get five unique interesting challenges. Falkoff crafted an entertaining story that expertly incorporated five different characterizations into the survival scenarios.  I found some fairly profound truths in this story that resonated with me: (1) "I hated that I tended to assume people were straight unless they indicated otherwise." (2) "Funny how different it felt, having a crush versus liking someone who liked you back. I'd had butterflies with Hunter, but they'd made me feel a little bit sick. Wyatt made me feel nothing but happy." (3) "We'd been so fixated on managing big-picture problems that we hadn't yet learned how to deal with the day-to-day complexities of being ourselves..."

Unfortunately, the author used some standard YA story formulas that I tend to dislike. For example the characters don't tell others how they feel but then expect others to be mind readers and act a certain way.  In addition, this author actually comes out and has a character articulate another overused plot line "...where we need to help ourselves because the adults weren't going to be of much use."

Throughout the book, the lead character Amina frequently claims she doesn't know her friends as well as they know her. The purpose of this characterization is so she can eventually prove she does end up knowing one her friends better than her other friends do. The repetitive self-deprecation, however, is annoyingly tedious. 

Nonetheless, I like the ending in which the characters learn to be " ...less concerned with what we put in our go-bags and more about how to use cooperation and empathy to prevent the things we were so scared of from happening." I only wish that Falkoff had listened to her own advice. Why was it necessary for her to call out 'Republican' vs. 'Democrat' in a doomsday scenario in which a Republican was so "unpopular" that he got elected for a third and fourth term?

Since the good messages outweigh the trite precepts, I will enjoy putting this book into the hands of my high schoolers.

 

Thursday, July 09, 2020

Book Review: Wider than the Sky

Wider than the Sky
by Katherine Rothschild
Pub Date: 19 Jan 2021  
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I agree with the publisher's representation of Wider than the Sky; "Katherine Rothschild explores the pain and power of forgiveness," and she does it well. Never preachy or melodramatic, the reader feels Sabine's pain, irrational thinking, and growth.  

Some very clever details made certain situations quite realistic and vivid. So there are no spoilers, just watch for the scene where Sabine is trying not to drink alcohol at a party. The author was talented at including details throughout the story that were relevant on many levels as the story progressed around them. On the other hand, a few descriptions eluded me or were open to interpretation, like, "It felt like someone eating candy through tears."

Like many YA novels, the teens save the day, and the adults muck things up. Fortunately, in Wider than the Sky the parents here have good intentions and aren't just incompetent. The author also does a seamless job of integrating poetry into the motif and action of the story.

The story approaches forgiveness on many different levels -- sisters, friends, parents, and romantic partners --  through twin siblings, the "girl code," a bisexual/polyamorous relationship, and first love. I'm looking forward to putting this in my HS library.

4 1/2 ⭐⭐⭐⭐🗲

Sunday, July 05, 2020

Book Review: Love is for Losers

Love Is for Losers
by Wibke Brueggemann
Pub Date: 23 Feb 2021   
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DNF at 36%.

Ask anyone; I'm not a prude. I used to teach HIV/AIDS education to high schoolers and got them to shout 'penis' in their classrooms. But having a friend of one's mother (Kate) explain about a clitoris to a 15 year old (Phoebe), and then telling the 15 year old to explain that all to another 15 year old friend, so the friend will enjoy sex more, is beyond necessary in a YA book. As is the 40-something Kate publicly mooning over a 23-year old waiter.

The characters were flat and uninteresting. The main character, Phoebe, lived in a perpetual pity party; it quickly got old listening to her complain. None of the characters were described in enough detail to make me care about them. And there were only so many times I could listen to Phoebe describe Kate as a cat lady. I get it; Kate likes cats.

I initially enjoyed the snarky, sarcastic humor in the story, but it never was enough to overcome the poor writing style (diary-like with conversational grammar and spelling) that makes Phoebe come across as whiny instead of clever. The times that the author included actual life wisdoms instead of lecturing about sex were the only redeeming aspects of the story.

Friday, July 03, 2020

Book Review: The Girl Who Wasn't There

The Girl Who Wasn't There
by Penny Joelson
Pub Date: 03 Nov 2020 
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The Girl Who Wasn't There wasn't there for me until 88% through the book. I persevered since I wanted to find out about the mysterious girl who wasn't there, but I hadn't read the description of the book since I first requested the title, and I didn't read the "back cover" of my electronic version of the book. Therefore, I got 88% through the book with a misconception of whom the girl who wasn't there really was. That changed my whole perspective and point-of-view of what I'd been reading and finally made the book somewhat more interesting. (I'm trying not to make a spoiler, so don't read the tags on this post unless you want a spoiler.)

The writing wasn't sophisticated, i.e., probably appropriate for middle as well as high school.  However, I'm not sure it would suit reluctant readers; reading about a tired girl gets tiring. The ratio of the story between talking about chronic fatigue syndrome versus talking about the girl who wasn't there, if swayed more toward the girl and less about the syndrome, would have made for a more captivating, engaging read. 

On a more positive note, the story's secondary characters of the neighbor and her grandson were well thought out and appealing. On the other hand, the school friends of the main character were more like plot movers and distractions.

I wanted to like it more, but when most of a narrative book entails the many ways of describing how tired someone is, I find myself getting tired, too.